What is most important in a person. The most important thing in a person What is the most important thing in a person why
You can name many different traits that a person must have. It is quite difficult to single out the most important of them. For example, appearance. Tries to communicate and be friends with a nice person a large number of of people. But if a person has a beautiful appearance, but a bad character, this will not last long. Gradually, his essence is revealed to those around him. Not many people will want to communicate with a bad person anymore. This means that appearance does not always play an important role. Good character is important to us as people. The ability to speak beautifully is important. A good character in my understanding is when a person speaks the truth, does not be mean, does not lie, is not afraid to help, or stand up for the weak. If such a person is next to me, I am not afraid. And I don’t care how beautiful this person looks. The main thing is that I have confidence in him. No matter what situation we may find ourselves in, such a person will not leave us in trouble. After all, you can find yourself surrounded by very beautiful people with a cowardly character who will leave you in trouble at the first opportunity. Or you can be in the company of not very beautiful people who will stand up for you when they attack you.
Therefore, I believe that the most important thing in a person is his character. A person's appearance fades into the background.
The most important thing in a person is sincerity and simplicity. And external beauty is not as important as internal beauty. A person is beautiful because kindness lives in him,
She is like paint that will be a delight for any canvas.
A person is pure because his main trump card is not pomp and gaiety, but a heart that gives everyone joy, fluttering with the lightness of a moth.
And above all - the heart - in which mercy, affection, integrity and warmth live.
It doesn’t matter what skin color, clothes, it doesn’t matter whether the heart is filled with self-confident denial or faith in Christ, the main thing is when the eyes light up and the soul responds to someone else’s misfortune.
It doesn’t matter whether your abode is a mansion or a hut made of logs - if there is awe, love, complicity in your chest, then your life is not empty.
Isn't happiness the same as enjoying life to the last sip? Do not be afraid to love and even be humiliated by the love of the blade,
Isn't happiness about loving every grain of sand? Isn't happiness in laying down your swords and finding the strength to embrace your enemy?
And give him food and goodness, drinking with him from your own cup of wine.
If words of support were released from your lips in a moment of despair, if your heart burns, blazes brighter than a fire, if you love every centimeter of the Motherland - from the lakes to every petal blooming in the spring
This means your life is righteous and incredibly full.
And you flutter, full of joy, in rapture at how light it is, and drink in admiration from the ocean of existence, which gives water for every stream.
And if you are kind, then a universal thread leads you, its invisible, gentle hand rests on your shoulders like cosmic twilight,
And she protects you throughout the ages.
Above all shrines for me is a dream.
The most carefree thing is spiritual nakedness - the ability to empathize and live, observing the miracle in the moment of every day.
The most important thing in a person is his eyes.
How to decide what jewel to decorate your finger with,
You would better think about what to give to your neighbor, believing in the gratuitousness of hopes. It would be better for you to rise up in heart and give benefactors to everyone, without relying on the help of heaven.
Above all else in a person is virtue, it is more significant than the graceful gesture of a diva, it is more beautiful than a flirtatious look, it is more majestic than Everst.
Above all in a person is the ability to understand, empathize, listen, accept, and give, sparing no spiritual means.
Of all the places I've visited, the most beautiful
The most moving were the walks through the human soul.
The most beautiful of all festivals and celebrations is a kind heart - my interest in it will not fade.
And if anything in this world still has weight,
These are the eyes that burn all around. What could be more important than a loving heart, which is probably
Author Stranger~*~ asked a question in the section Other relationships
What is the most important thing for you in a person? and got the best answer
Answer from Yergey Ivanov[guru]
Personally, I think that the most important thing is for a person to respect and appreciate you. Many people say that the most important thing in life is love, but they do not always understand that love cannot exist without these qualities. Of course, also honesty. Without her there is no relationship, be it friendly or more serious. Friendship. If a person knows how to be friends, then this already characterizes him as good man. Friendship is not just talk, but most importantly you need to be able to help your neighbor or just a stranger in a difficult situation. Loyalty and devotion. I think these are also one of the main qualities. Without them, neither friendship nor love can exist. Understanding. This should be present in any relationship, but unfortunately it is not always possible. Although, if you try hard and want to, you can do everything and get it in this difficult, but at the same time very interesting life. Try to understand another person in any situation, even if he offended you and you don’t want to do it at all. PATIENCE. In capital letters I emphasize the importance of this quality. After all, normal life is not possible without patience. family life. If you are more patient with each other, your friendship or family life will last much longer. I wish everyone to appreciate these qualities in people and in themselves.)
Answer from ***Daria***[guru]
kindness
Answer from PavliK[guru]
kindness fidelity decency honesty
Answer from Alina[guru]
Sense of humor.
Answer from Vasily Dikov[guru]
Spiritual nobility
Answer from YEOOL[guru]
Honesty, kindness, loyalty, a sense of humor, an ironic mindset are a must, and if we talk about the opposite sex, then appearance, of course!)
Answer from Lana Fox[guru]
Kindness, honesty
Answer from FRIEND[guru]
Healthy kidneys and liver... Hello!!!
Answer from ~ ° °MERLIN~ ° °[guru]
Sincerity!
So that he doesn’t try to seem different, doesn’t make up tales and stories... be who he really is...
Answer from Vyacheslav Kochetov[guru]
Yes, there is no main thing or under the main thing, there are people each with their own + or - :)
Answer from Vikusha[guru]
Spirituality, the ability to listen and understand others, honesty, decency, the ability to admit and correct one’s mistakes.
Answer from Delicate flower[guru]
Care, respect, soul, responsibility, independence, the ability to live with your own mind and solve your problems
Answer from Jatiana Tobbi[guru]
For me, the most important thing in a person is reliability.
Answer from Artem Baryshev[newbie]
sincerity
Answer from 3 answers[guru]
Hello! What are the two most important qualities in a person? What qualities will help all areas of life? Today we will talk about this, friends.
A short preface. December has become a month of interesting articles for me about productivity, motivation and other similar matters. Hmm, I like it! Sometimes, it’s interesting for me to write about topics like these, because... I try to develop not only my body, becoming just a piece of meat, but also my intellect, spirit, and heart.
All these areas are very important, and only with the harmonious development of all these areas, I believe, can you achieve maximum results in any business.
Wait for a very cool article on December 31st in the morning, while you are cutting salads, you can greatly cheer yourself up. I promise, the article will simply amaze you. And now, to the topic of the article.
On the eve of the New Year, a wonderful, good holiday of hopes and bold dreams, magic happens not only under the Christmas tree of almost every home, but also through all information channels (newspapers, TV, billboards, radio, television and, of course, ).
There are a lot of advertisements for all sorts of TRAININGS ABOUT SUCCESS! At best, Brian Tracy, Kiyosaki or someone else who was at least somehow noticed in business. And at worst, all sorts of absolutely unknown names who talk about how to become successful, without mentioning that they themselves are successful (and that’s not a fact) only because of what they earn, talking about how to become successful.
After listening to such bright and inspiring things, people hang pictures of houses by the sea and sports on their walls. cars, and begin to persistently masturbate and visualize their unattainable dreams, WITHOUT DOING anything else.
I will not dwell on this topic today, because... I already talked about this in the article: .
Today I want to talk about the two most important, in my opinion, qualities in a person and they directly affect our interaction with the outside world.
What can you give me?
Tell. What interests you when you go to the store to buy groceries?
YOU ARE INTERESTED IN PRODUCTS! It's logical. Those. what products YOU NEED you can buy in this particular store.
There is an opinion that the world wants to give you something, and you just have to hear it. Someone is sure that the world wants to take something away from you, and you must resist it with all your might. Both of these groups of people are deeply mistaken because THE WORLD DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU AND YOUR DREAMS!
The world (the Universe, if you like) views you FROM THE POINT OF ITS BENEFIT! Those. what can you GIVE HIM!
THE WORLD DOES NOT CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU DREAM ABOUT!!! The world is interested in WHAT YOU CAN GIVE IT, because we live in a material world, a world where there are a LIMITED amount of resources!
THE WORLD WILL NOT GIVE YOU ANYTHING unless you give it something in return. For the same reasons, he will not take anything from you (unless you took something from someone). This is because the laws of conservation (equilibrium) of energy and other resources operate in the world.
Don't want to work and develop? Fine! Then you will not have the resources to survive. Don't want to play sports? OK. Here's a loose, flabby body for you.
You can live with minimal losses of energy and resources How more than 90% of our Earth's population lives. Only then be prepared that your income and your effectiveness of interaction with the outside world will be VERY LOW (work, home, work, home, drunken stupor on vacation a couple of times a year, booze on weekends with friends, etc.).
On the other hand, you can do things differently. You can DEVELOP, experiment, help someone in different matters, create your own works, write books, etc. Then your effectiveness of interaction with the outside world will increase, and the size of the exchange of resources will become larger (YOU GAVE MORE, MEANS YOU WILL RECEIVE MORE).
For example, instead of going to a club to drink on the weekend with friends, you will study new program on the computer or write a short chapter for your future book, or maybe you’ll just fix that annoying faucet in the bathroom that’s constantly leaking, or you’ll go to grandma’s to dig up potatoes.
It is not necessary that you will receive this increase in exactly the area you are counting on, because... balance can be stabilized in different directions.
Most likely, it will not be immediate, but over time you will catch yourself thinking that it is very good that you did exactly that (decided to GIVE your time, energy, money to something). Because Having studied the program, you received a promotion at your job (at the right moment, you were the only one who knew how to use it), and having gone to your grandmother to grow potatoes, you met your future wife there when she came with her friends to swim in the river near your garden.
You will definitely receive a reward for your efforts, because... The system is balanced IN BOTH WAYS!
- GAVE SOMETHING = RECEIVED SOMETHING;
- TOOK SOMETHING = TOOK SOMETHING FROM YOU TOO;
And if you didn’t give or take anything, then nothing was taken from you either, but don’t expect anything.
The Universe and the world DO NOT CARE who you think you are and how you think about yourself. SHE DOES NOT EVEN CARE ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS! The most important thing is ACTION!
Another thing is that YOUR THOUGHTS GUIDE YOU on the right course. As a result, YOU NEED TO IMAGINE A GOAL and ACT! One without the other is ineffective, although actions without visualization work better than visualization without actions.
The question that is important to the universe is: “What can you give me?” WHAT CAN YOU GIVE HER! Think about it!
That is why it is very important to LEARN TO CREATE SOMETHING! The more useful and unique what you create, the more you will get! If you create something, then you give yourself the opportunity to get something (income, a beautiful girl, happiness, etc.)!!!
Why is that? BECAUSE YOU ARE USEFUL! You can give something! You are useful to the world, so you can count on rewards! You can not only process food from one form to another, while remaining in complete suspended animation and alienation from your life. YOU GIVE AND CREATE!
THE ABILITY TO CREATE SOMETHING is the ability to GIVE TO THIS WORLD! Even if you know how to repair cabinets, you know how to create (create a workable state). If you know how to joke well, then you know how to create a good mood, etc. A good civil engineer knows how to create quality buildings, bridges, etc.
Important point! The more valuable your skill is, the more you will get in return.! Obviously, the ability to create new machine designs is more valuable than the ability to knit brooms from birch branches.
That is why the one who GIVES HIS RESOURCES to acquire skills to create new machines and mechanisms will receive more than a broom seller. You spent more and got more in return.
People often measure happiness and success only with money. But this is a HUGE mistake. Most things in our world are not material!!!
You can buy a whore in a brothel or pick up a girl in a club to get SEX, but you cannot buy LOVE. You can buy PEOPLE with money, but not FRIENDS. POSITION, but not RESPECT! MEDICINES, but not HEALTH! BED, but not SLEEP!
Many people are still convinced that WEALTH = HAPPINESS! This is wrong. Money is just one of the resources of our world. Money works only when there is proportionality to the investment (effort, time, brain and physical activity, etc.). That is why those who win large sums in the lottery very quickly “lose” this money, because... the proportionality of the invested and received resources (I bought a ticket and erased the coating, but received a lot of money) IS NOT COMPLIED!
If you give something, you will definitely receive something! It's not always money (yes, it can be money).
I had an interesting case. Exactly a year ago I CREATED a free video course about . At that moment, I was running this blog, but I didn’t have a girlfriend. Yes, there were girls, but not the same ones. So much for fun.
After seeing this video course, my girlfriend (whom we are together now and will marry in the future) fell in love with me. And I didn’t even know about it, but the PROCESS WAS LAUNCHED! I created something, and the Universe thanked me for it, because... I was USEFUL for people who wanted to learn how to ride, but didn't know how or what to do.
So we come to the first MOST IMPORTANT quality of a person who wants to effectively interact with the outside world, this is: ENTERPRISE!!!
Entrepreneurship, friends, is very important in a world where it is necessary to find WAYS TO EFFECTIVELY INTERACT WITH THE OUTSIDE WORLD!
Previously, our ancestors could either try to manually kill a large animal to eat, or kill it with a trap (a pit with stakes) or a weapon!
It was MUCH MORE EFFECTIVE to hunt with weapons or traps. It is obvious. Because You can’t take down a big animal by hand (you won’t bring much food home).
Resources have not changed much, we still need food as before (cars, iPhones and everything else is not vital), but the WAYS OF PRODUCING RESOURCES HAVE CHANGED COLOSSICALLY! We no longer have to run after the beast with a spear.
We need to learn to TAKE ACTION for our development in order to interact more EFFECTIVELY with the outside world.
The more valuable your skill, the more you get! The better you do it, the more you get! To understand how to learn to extract more resources, you need to learn to TAKE SOME ACTION to do so.
You don't have to see the whole path. All you have to do is start.
You will always be a newbie in some area.(whether it be construction, management, promotion and website creation, Gym etc.). But you must learn to GIVE your strength, time, money for YEARS to YOUR DEVELOPMENT, because this way you can give the Universe very valuable resources.
From the very beginning it is very difficult for you to do this, because all the people around you will try to KEEP YOU AT THEIR LEVEL. You will be ridiculed , aggression, etc. This is a great reason to give up and do nothing, but if you want to achieve something, then you must, no matter what, MOVE ON! Must TAKE certain actions to develop and become a more valuable product in the resource market!
Conclusion: We need to develop ENTREPRENEURSHIP! You need to DO, and not just dream!
By the way! I wrote a great article about how to withstand any competition: .
Second in order, but not least important, is quality
This will be very difficult. When you first start doing something, doing something, creating something, you will encounter criticism, ridicule, obstacles, bad moods and attitudes, because... people don’t like to understand that the problem is only in themselves.
You must learn to ABSTRACT and see your ultimate goal, and then persistently follow it.
It follows from this The second MOST IMPORTANT quality of a person is PERSISTENCE!
“Is there anything in the world that cannot be achieved through hard work?”(Heesung Nam. “Moonlight Sculptor Lee Hyun”)
Many people lack this very quality to achieve outstanding results.
It is very difficult! IT’S DIFFICULT when no one around you believes in you and assures you that you won’t succeed. “You have a big bone, you can’t argue against genetics, it’s just your constitution,” they tell a woman who wants to lose weight, her FAT “friends.”
"What business? The situation is not stable, they can kill you, you will get into debt,” fellow mechanics at the factory tell a man who wants to open a business.
But the more you PUSH YOUR LINE, the more you TAKE AND TRY, the BETTER YOU WILL DO IT!
A little later you will realize that you can easily do what previously seemed very difficult, because you have adapted! You TRIED, GIVED, CREATE and WORKED HARD to get what you want! You spent a lot of effort, money, time to achieve this and over time you will understand how YOUR LIFE IS BECOMING BETTER!
There's more around you beautiful girls, or you met the girl you always wanted. You can afford more, because... unexpectedly new opportunities have opened up for you (at work, in business or creativity). You have become healthier because... tried hard to bring their body back to normal, etc.
YOU WILL SURELY RECEIVE A REWARD IF YOU GIVE SOMETHING AWAY!
How do you think the primitive man who was the first to pick up a stick to dig the earth felt? Naturally, they looked at him like he was an idiot! After all, “that’s not accepted.”
But he persisted and everyone began to understand that this way they could cultivate the land more efficiently. He CREATED something and persistently followed his beliefs, so the Universe thanked him (perhaps with a better female, perhaps with respect in the team, perhaps with more food, etc.).
Conclusion: You need to train your PERSISTENCE! This will allow you to act to the end and not deviate from the intended path.
conclusions
ENTREPRENEURSHIP helps you CHOOSE and ADJUST your course, and PERSISTENCE helps you stay the course. These two qualities are the MOST IMPORTANT to achieving your goals.
ENTREPRENEURSHIP without perseverance is procrastination, i.e. when you quit halfway or at the very beginning. I talked about this .
And PERSISTENCE without entrepreneurship is “deterrence.” You must be able to change course depending on external conditions, because:
“What difference does it make how fast you move if the ladder is against the wrong wall?”
By developing these two qualities, you can achieve colossal results in any endeavor, and then no “secrets” of Tibetan monks and trainings about “colossal” success will be needed.
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The most important thing in a person...
The most important thing in a person is his soul and mind. The soul expresses its desires as feelings, while the mind expresses its desires as thoughts. The body contains the soul and mind, it is the abode. Mind and soul are spirit. Who and what gave us this miracle is not destined to know, but at least, to me. The body lives physical laws and allows you to see, hear, feel, and perform actions. The body allows us to carry out our thoughts and ideas and bring them to life. A pleasant feeling for the body, a joyful feeling, euphoria, ecstasy, orgasm, tickling, laughter are good, I agree, but in moderation, but you should never strive for these earthly blessings, because you are not created for this, I think. All these sensations can be compared to wine. Pleasure is temporary, but constantly it either gets boring, or paralyzes the mind, or destroys the body. Artificially created happiness such as alcohol, drugs and the like is not good because it turns us into animals and brings unnatural death closer. Death is natural only from old age.
The desire to possess earthly goods is an animal way of life, it is caring for one’s body, it is the self-affirmation of weak people, it is their refuge. I'm not saying that wise men are gods. A sage is not always a thoughtful old man with a beard and a book in his hands. A sage is also a person. He is an eternal student. Each sage has a different view on the laws of Existence, on nature, on the Cosmos, on life, on death, on man and his spirit. Wise men guide and inspire. Truths differ according to reason.
Why improve? Okay, but what is the way of the animal way of life? It's a pleasure, it's good, but, I repeat, in moderation. Est modus in rebus. And when this goal or path to the possession of these earthly goods becomes the goal or path of a person’s entire life, then the mind acquires another truth - a false one. Truth says: “Live and rejoice! This is paradise!” And man, no longer like a man, but like a beast, will follow his thoughts and forget his beginning, his real path. Earth and Cosmos (spirit and body) must be combined, but with the predominance of Cosmos, in order to simply satisfy physical needs so that they do not overshadow thoughts. Man was given reason. For what? Cattle think primitively, if they think at all, in general, they think instinctively in order to survive. She eats, procreates, sleeps, keeps her body hygienic, and sometimes allows herself to play and have fun. Tell me, how does she differ from a person who has completely abandoned reason in favor of “live and be happy”? Nothing. Reason was given to us so that we could think, and since we think slowly, uncertainly, skeptically, with apprehension, and sometimes on the contrary, it has led to the fact that in order to improve ourselves, we must be patient. And it so happened that the process is long and inexhaustible for our human life. But this is undoubtedly the best choice, for if you become a sage, you will love life as an animal does not love it, you will see what an animal will not see, you will know more and will be smarter, but not from vanity, but from need.
An animal can have fun, but cannot read and understand a book (why do people who can read think that reading and understanding are the same thing?), it does not even think about anything lofty, and, for example, it does not love sees nothing but carnal pleasure. A wise man can do both. Choose the path, my friends, and make no mistake! You will pay for your choice