Cancer man: sex, desires and women. Zodiac sign Cancer (woman): characteristics, compatibility and description Sex life of Cancers
There is one girl who I... how to say... . In general, I checked many times, but when I hint to her that I like her not only as a person, but also as a girl, she says that there can be nothing but friendship, and I don’t understand why.
The site gave the following:
Overall compatibility: 52%
Physical - 48% - not compatible
Emotional - 57% - overlap
Intellectual - 80% - almost the same
Cardiac – 18% – not compatible
Creative - 62% - overlap
Intuitive - 74% - compatible
Highest - 22% - not compatible
According to the sign of the Zodiac (position of the Sun in the sign) - I am Cancer, she is Pisces (signs of the same element).
Characters 3 and 3
Family 5 (for her) and 4 (for me)
Temperament 2 (for her) and 6 (for me)
So what's up?
In-contri:
Alexander, it looks like there is much more sympathy on your side than on hers: on the “female” side, emotional compatibility is 57%, while on the “male” side, intelligence is 80% and creativity is 62%.
There is also an intuition between you that works very well for water signs 74%, but it is not so easy to reveal and feel from afar, without close communication.
Of course, our current version of the In-contri script does not yet reveal many details (but we are working on it). One of these details is that women of Water signs, being naturally soft and vulnerable in their souls, try to choose a man who is clearly tougher in character as their partner. Because of this, by the way, they often fall for Fire signs and get burned with them.
In your case, it also plays a role that she is a Pisces, which means “big brother” for your Cancer sign. Perhaps a Scorpio girl, whose sign is “little brother” for Cancer, would look at you completely differently.
Good day! I already wrote to you, apparently there was a long message, and you did not answer. I am worried about the question: why did a man with whom we have good compatibility, as many as 4 maximums and everything is in order according to Pythagoras, prefer another to me? With whom they have continuous dissonances, and besides, she is married. According to our compatibility, he should be drawn to me in the same way as I am to him, but because of him I can’t look at others at all. We have common views and ideals, and his friends respect me, and I am not deprived of attention either. I feel that the interest is mutual. As for age, I’ve been engaged in self-development for a long time, so it should sort of suit him. 07/10/1989, he 11/5/1977, she 11/25/1977. Help me to understand(((
In-contri:
Ksenia, we found your first letter dated November 26 last year and then separately you sent the birth dates of all participants. Well, quite a powerful review in terms of content. I regret that he was left without attention. But, alas, it is simply physically impossible to read and process everything. And long stories like yours are not bad at all. On the contrary, they sometimes provide more information for thought than in 10 short reviews. One problem long stories— responses to them sometimes take 2-3 days to be written.
Judging by the fact that even after so much time you do not give up and are trying to get an answer, this situation and your partner will not let you go and the answer is extremely important. In this case, we won’t make any guesses about the timing, but in the near future we’ll try to figure it out deeper.
But with us it’s the other way around... I’m a Cancer, and he’s an Aquarius (July 16, 1995 and February 3, 1997). And it was I who, as he says, frayed his nerves and it was he who opened his veins because of me and there were attempts to throw himself under the train. Most likely, the relationship between a boa constrictor and a rabbit does not exist, since Aquarius personally does not affect me as you wrote. Well, which one of us is a rabbit and which one is a boa constrictor? Moreover, I don’t suffer for him at all, but because of me he becomes an alcoholic and I feel sorry for the boy, he’s not himself.
In-contri:
Milana, if this is not “The Boa Constrictor and the Rabbit,” then what? What are all these nerves, opening veins and rehearsing the role of Anna Karenina performed by a man?
The overall percentage of compatibility is 82% (not everyone manages to meet such a couple in life)
Physical 96% (maximum)
Emotional 96% (maximum)
Intelligent 75% (high)
Cardiac 97% (maximum)
Creative 36%
Upper 80% (high)
We’ve already talked about your signs - Cancer (you) and Aquarius (him). Accordingly, he is kind of like a “Boa Constrictor”, and for him you are a “Rabbit”. However, serious adjustments to the pair are made by the characters according to Pythagoras: you have a confident leadership 1111 and a soft 11 for him. And the funniest thing in the finale: the guy got even in temperament: 5 for him and 4 for you. As a result, the cards are as confused as possible.
Well, if you were 10 years older, you would have taken a completely different experience from this relationship. And so youthful maximalism and its characteristic inability and reluctance to build, value and develop something (alas, this is typical for 90% of young partners in relationships) multiplied by the girl’s advantage in age and character, and then all this raised to the degree of intensity of the couple’s passions “Boa Constrictor and Rabbit” led to a fierce, but usual for such a couple, confrontation. The rabbit won based on his own strength and the weakness of his partner’s character. Although, to be honest, there is nothing to be happy about. Both will remember this relationship as a madhouse for the rest of their lives.
Hello. I am extremely glad that I found myself on such a site. And I’m incredibly surprised - there are a lot of sites on this topic, but here it’s so precise, clear and interesting, it’s truly fascinating)
I always paid attention to horoscopes, etc., but now it has become more interesting. After all, this can really help in life. My story is funny, actually.
Right now I am divorced from my ex-wife (I - 10/29/1987, she - 06/18/1975). When I checked the compatibility on your website and read the type of relationship “boa constrictor - rabbit”, I just fell out of my chair))) word for word as I had... for six years the “rabbit” lasted)) but that’s not what I want to say. Right now there is only one girl in my head (07/06/1989). The trick is that he started dating her while he was still married, but soon he “sort of” broke up with her. The reason is probably mainly emotions. There was little heart-to-heart talk, but there were occasional outbursts. Or rather, my “stamp in the passport” greatly depressed her, saying “busy”. I felt like she could open up, but she didn't do it as much as I wanted. Right now she is apathetic towards me. The feeling that I was carried away by someone. I want to get her back, and I'm working on it. Your site gives strength and hope. I’m pleased with my intuitive biorhythm with her, although this may not be the main thing)
Can you give any comments/additions? calculations/personal view of my story?)
And by the way, maybe add names to calculate compatibility? Or does it not matter, what do you think?)
In-contri:
Antonio, you are one of the lucky few who wrote a review while a new comment was being written for the site. Of course, reviews that appear right before your eyes are impossible to ignore.
But, I won’t hide, what attracted attention in your story was, of course, your birth dates and ex-wife: 1987 and 1975. To put it mildly, not very traditional in the public understanding. I remember the almost sensational program on YouTube with Malakhov about an unequal marriage. Let’s leave behind the scenes the age at which you got married and pay attention only to the fact that today you are 27, less than two weeks old, and your ex-wife is... 39 years old. Cool. Most readers' eyes, like mine, are probably widened. I wonder what they will remain if we calculate compatibility based on your dates:
– Overall 55% and compatibility in emotions (74%), intellect (65%), heart (70%) and creativity (82%)
— characters 3-3, family 4-2, temperaments 6-5
Many would actually envy this situation. If it were not for “Boa Constrictor and Rabbit” in the horoscope. Although I am sure that it was the specifics of the relationship between “Boa Constrictor and Rabbit” that brought its spark to the stormy beginning of this relationship, which led to a very controversial marriage from any point of view. Be that as it may, the beginning was dizzying. Well, the end, however, as in most novels of such a pair of characters. But there will be something to remember. Although I had to go through a lot. But don’t despair, Antonio, and don’t rush into a quick decision about a new companion.
Still, if we talk about the prospects of your relationship specifically with the girl of 07/06/1989, then it’s more likely no than yes. I see that you yourself have noticed a lack of emotions. And for good reason. Water signs are the most emotional. And their union, in this case, is logical that it should be based on common emotions. Which, as you see in calculations and in practice, is not observed. For all readers, I would like to note that apart from the physical and intuitive maximum, against the background of the seemingly favorable pair of water signs Scorpio and Cancer, nothing else is observed.
Yes, you, as a man, are driven by maximum physical compatibility; perhaps there is also maximum intuitive compatibility. But the real depth of a relationship, believe me, is felt after some time of communicating with a new partner. And doubts, emotional coldness, apathy, and literally a chasm in temperament - 1 for the girl and 5 for you (with maximum physical compatibility with her!). All this does not add positive points to the forecast. I would especially like to note that temperaments 1 feel a little uncomfortable under the pressure of temperaments 4-5 (by analogy with characters). And it has been discussed more than once that the higher the temperament, the higher the partner’s loyalty, especially when paired with a similar temperament. But the lower the temperament, the higher the tendency to go to the left. So here, Antonio, your premonition may not let you down. In connection with all of the above, I propose to take a more sober look at the prospects in this pair and not build any special illusions. It’s just that if your plans fail, it will be easier for you to accept and analyze everything.
Names really do not play a role in the calculation of compatibility. This is more about SMS predictions and other miracle services))
I sincerely wish you success, Antonio, in finding a harmonious couple!
For some reason, the calculation does not take into account when the date of birth is in the extreme numbers of the sign. In theory, the signs are Aries and Cancer, and a plausible description is obtained when you shift them for a couple of days, as for Pisces and Leo.
In-contri:
Pavel, once again for you and other readers, I would like to draw your attention to the fact that the extreme dates by sign were brought into line with the Western standard of astrology. In general, it seems to me that this eternal dispute about border markers will never end. Therefore, here it is better to analyze yourself personally more deeply and take the position that most closely matches reality. I can also say from experience that the approved format is more accurate, because... The vast majority of people born in the last decade of their sign tend to exhibit traits of the next sign. What can we say about people born on the very last day of the sign.
My name is Pavel) I’ve known this site for about a year)
Hmm, where was he before at least 4 years ago) when I thought that I was a failure in life and because the relationship was not working out) I looked at the compatibility, then 30%, then 36%, then 49%) and everything fell into place.. I started get acquainted with high percentages of compatibility.. well, when and how) you know percentages are percentages, but you can’t order your heart)
About 2 months ago I wrote to a girl and a profile without her photos) and then it started... communication from morning to evening.. and everything is so simple) and the humor is great) favorite writers, directors, musicians, composers, general views on life, we are both studying at the Faculty of Psychology) we even both once collected coins) at the first meeting I was fascinated by her) Today a declaration of love is planned!! Just a huge thank you!!!
Cancer Virgo
Physical 67% - compatible
Emotional 72% - compatible
Intelligent 67% - compatible
Cardiac 71% - compatible
Creative 81% - almost the same
Intuitive 83% - almost the same
Highest 67% - compatible
In-contri:
Pavel, great review! I'm rooting for you now. Well, and, of course, success!
Hello! I wrote to you earlier, but since I haven’t received an answer yet, I decided to expand the question.
My husband and I have been a couple for 10 years, 4 of which we live together and raise a child (he is my first man). The relationship was never smooth: there was a period (before marriage) when I was looking for a relationship on the side, because... there was a lack of understanding on his part. She left a couple of times, and then decided to transform the relationship into non-binding sex. And this went on for a couple of years: I communicated with other men (more emotionally than physically), while simultaneously dating my own. The fear of being alone prevented me from leaving completely.
During this period of “open” relationship, I met another man whom I still periodically remember. He is 18 years older than me. The sympathy arose at first sight. He took the initiative (calls, meetings, kisses). But he was in no hurry to move to a more serious level. I was okay with that for a while (dating two men). But then, when the calls began to come less and less often, I tried to “shake” him. But due to her youth, she did it too clumsily and emotionally, which probably scared him off and gave him a reason to do what he already intended: stop communicating with me.
After several months of suffering, I came to terms with the fact that my “love” was unrequited. I finally returned to my boyfriend (future husband) who, already a 30-year-old man, said: “I gave you time to think, now it’s time to decide” - he made it clear that he would look for a girl for marriage if I didn’t hurry up. Realizing that in pursuit of “dreams” I might miss the chance to connect my life with a sensible person, I forced myself to forget the past and a year later I moved in with him and we had a child.
At first, life together was like a powder keg. We often argued, and it was infuriating that instead of calming me down (I can be overly emotional), he reacted doubly emotionally. To which I responded three times sharply... A couple of times he promised to “hit” me if I didn’t shut up.
In order to somehow control myself, I went to work. And this became a salvation for us - a kind of substitute for those men, communication with whom in the period before marriage allowed me to maintain a relationship with my current husband.
My husband complains that I work too much. But on the whole I am ready to put up with it. I am satisfied that he is an ideal husband and father for our child. And provided that he does not interfere with my creative development, I am ready to put up with the incessant fear that if I let my guard down for a moment and give him more freedom than my security can guarantee, he will do something stupid...
At the same time, sometimes I really want to experience again what I felt in relation to the man I wrote about above (((especially after our compatibility has broken through:
physical - 44%
emots. - 54%
intellect. - 83%
heart - 85%
creative - 65%
intellect. - 72%
highest - 71%
To this we can add the fact that our signs are from the same element (Virgo and Capricorn), the temperament is the same (5 and 5), and his character is 1 higher. Nepotism: I am “spontaneous”, he is an “idealistic family man”. The only confusing thing is that in this couple I am the “parent” and he is the “child”. Maybe this was the reason for his inertia? How do you see this situation? It’s very interesting, although it’s too late to change anything.
P.S. For several years now, fate has been confronting us regularly. Every time he shows sympathy. I tried to start a conversation and linger. On the contrary, because of my once wounded pride, I pretended that I didn’t notice it and tried to run away as soon as possible (I wouldn’t want that terrible situation of uncertainty when they don’t call you to happen again)
Here's me and my husband:
physical - 43%
emots. - 53%
intellect. - 59%
heart - 14%
creative - 68%
intuitive - 72%
highest - 71%
Our signs: Virgo and Cancer. By character he is a leader, in a couple he is the father - I am the child, but his temperament is a little let down: I have 5, my husband has 3 :)
I know that everything is clear here. But I would be very grateful for a brief comment on the above.
In-contri:
Alya, thank you for such a deep and detailed story. Alas, I have not met either her or your pseudonym in the site’s mail before.
Let's start with an overview of your and your husband's relationship. To be honest, I got the impression that your choice, as happens with girls, even those who have great success with many men, was not due to the fact that this partner was the best for you, but because you simply knew your husband longer than others , so by default your credibility in him was greater. Moreover, it turns out that he put you before a choice and pushed through with his will 5 units multiplied by the strength of the role of “big brother” in relation to your sign. You know, such situations often surprise the male brain, when a girl who has been wooed by many interesting men ends up choosing “the guy from next door,” whom she has known since childhood. Simply because she has known its pros and cons for a long time, got used to it, found some kind of common language. And this, as we see, is present in your couple with your husband. Although it is strange that you are not used to tolerating the inherent nature of Cancer, like everyone else. water signs, emotionality. But here, rather, the problem is not that the husband’s emotionality is too high, but that she is irritable for you, because... simply incompatible. More precisely, a kind of unpredictable swing in half of emotional compatibility. There is an opinion, by the way, that sometimes dissonance in compatibility is better than such half-hearted swinging levels. But you don’t have dissonances other than those close to it in the heart chakras, but there are a little bits at each level. We see the highest compatibility at the highest levels, which gives illusory hope for the development of these relationships in the future. After all, as has been said more than once, it is compatibility in the 3 highest levels that influence the progress of relationships in the long term.
But, alas, there is no harmonious basis for relationships without the two lower “female” levels. The lack of a strong emotional and heartfelt connection pushed you to look for new partners. It’s not for nothing that you even made a reservation that communication with them was more emotional. However, you chose a compromise from an “ideal husband”, a “efficient person”, and simply someone who had the will to influence you in order to finally persuade you to make a choice in your favor.
They say that all meetings in our destiny are not accidental. So it was no coincidence that you met that man who is much older than you, but despite this, he aroused those feelings that cannot fade away to this day. His detailed chakra compatibility with you is very interesting: don’t you notice that this seems to be a more successful copy of your husband? To such an extent that at some levels the differences are literally plus or minus a couple of percent. Only the main advantages of this mature man are, finally, almost maximum “female” heart compatibility with you and a strong overlap in “male” intellect. If these two detailed calculations were examined by an imaginary Compatibility Doctor, he would say: “darling, you have a pattern!” What does it mean to have an image of a potential partner ingrained in the mind, formed due to unsuccessful past or existing relationships.
It is difficult to say what causes the appearance of patterns. But it should be noted that their influence on attraction to a partner is no less than when there are maximum compatibility between people. Psychologically, the search for a partner similar to one of our former or current ones may be due to the fact that our consciousness wants to make another attempt at the “same relationship,” but this time it will be successful. Surely, you have noticed more than once how young girls say that they are “lucky” for certain types. So this is actually not luck at all, but rather a subconscious search for patterns in surrounding people of the opposite sex. Therefore, Alya, it is very likely that you see in the Capricorn man some kind of alternative to your current Cancer husband and a more successful opportunity for the realization of a relationship.
And, if this were not so, then you would hardly have written. The hope for a more successful attempt is read between the lines. And, it should be noted that it does have some basis. With your brain you compromise in your current relationship, write that “everything is already clear.” But the heart chose that second partner. And, it seems to me that after so much time after trying to have a relationship, fate does not push you against him... but pushes you. Don't fool yourself. Try to restore this communication and then everything will become clear to both of you. It’s better to try and regret it once than not to try and regret it all your life.
Hello! I really like to check my compatibility with men on your site. But! One thing confuses me, here I come out as a virgin, although I am a Leo according to the Sun, I study the natal chart, so I know that I am a Leo. Therefore, could you tell me what my compatibility is with a man, taking into account the fact that I am still a Leo) My date: 08/23/1991. Its 07/01/1986. Thank you in advance.
In-contri:
Suraya, if you take only chakras/biorhythms, then everything is pretty good - as many as 3 very powerful compatibility:
But then there are only contradictions: the Cancer guy, being 5 years older than you, has 2 times less strong character according to Pythagoras - 2 versus 4 for you. And also the unclear situation with your sign, as, indeed, in most cases with border signs.
Well, if you take Leo and Cancer, they will be “Best Friend and Best Enemy” friends-neighbors. The couple is not that incompatible, but rather from the category of “you can live.” By the way, for the sake of sport, statistics on pairs of characters from In-contri readers were already collected, and this particular pair turned out to be the most popular. So there’s no point in putting an end to it.
Negatively in in this case one thing: the confrontation between your elements of Fire (Leo) and Water (Cancer), where victory will, with varying success, go to either the older and experienced Cancer man, or the more explosive and strong-willed Lioness, that is, you. Only Cancer does not like such confrontations at all and every victory will not only please, but depress. After all, at what price did she get it? Let me tell you that usually men can’t stand something like this for long. Either they leave, or their inner core breaks and they give up. A strong woman is a test for a weaker man.
78% - Cancer and Aries - excellent compatibility - the honest truth - there is no passion in sexual relationships - but everything is calm and stable, otherwise - I can’t imagine life without my Aries! Close and beloved relative! Grown to each other - can’t be torn apart! Communication at some higher level... Thank you!
In-contri:
Natalya, although a couple of signs are of different parities, the interaction can be positive. And with your 78% in chakras/biorhythms (this is powerful compatibility!) you can count on good chances. Good luck to you!
Hello! I became interested in the compatibility of zodiac signs after breaking up with a man with whom it was interesting and exciting at first, but then simply unbearably difficult. Having read about how a Taurus woman and a Sagittarius man get along, I was surprised how accurately astrologers reflect all the subtleties of such relationships, as if they were writing from us))). And of course, off we go... I started looking at compatibility by year of birth, then date of birth (interesting!!!), and having plunged into the study of compatibility with other signs, I then thought: I wish I could meet Cancer. The relationship with Sagittarius was long and painful (and there were no others), that I just wanted to believe the stars. Six months later I met my Cancer, understanding at a glance, ease of communication, common interests, etc. Of course, I checked the compatibility on different sites: the relationship is harmonious, long-term, but as they write on one of the sites, it leaves a mark of unhappiness on me, and I couldn’t find exactly how this manifests itself. Maybe you can tell me? I am 05/12/1983, he is 07/05/1963.
Opinion of In-contri and classical astrology:
Full calculation (by chakras/biorhythms, the total is 69% - above average):
| Date of Birth | 05.07.1963 | 12.05.1983 |
| Biorhythms/Chakras | ||
| Physical | 80% | |
| Emotional | 84% | |
| Intellectual | 28% | |
| Cordial | 38% | |
| Creative | 89% | |
| Intuitive | 90% | |
| Higher | 73% | |
| Horoscope | ||
| Zodiac signs | Cancer - Water | Taurus - Earth |
| Pythagorean square | ||
| Character | 3 | 4 |
| Family | 2 | 5 |
| Temperament | 3 | 5 |
Another pleasant thing, as we have already seen, is the pair “Elder brother - younger brother”, where Taurus, that is, you, Alena, is for the elder. And, as happens in most couples with roles assigned by the Zodiac, the same thing is confirmed in Pythagoras - 4 in your character versus 3 in Cancer. Although, with a high degree of confidence, it can be assumed that at the initial stage, a more mature Cancer man with a “golden”, but nevertheless impulsive character, will try to show himself as a leader. But over time, you will come to natural roles where you are assigned the place of the first number.
It is also extremely important (this is the second main point after the favorable compatibility of signs) - high compatibility in all three higher chakras. For partners your age, and especially your date, this is key compatibility. Therefore, now we need to start working on revealing it, planning our lives together, sharing our experiences and our philosophy of life with each other - in general, building relationships, also as a deep spiritual union.
I think, Alena, that you have already read enough promising forecasts about your couple and, including on this site, you have found additional confirmation. This is all good. Only now, I’m afraid that the main problems will await you outside. What can I say: a 30-year-old girl and a 50-year-old man. Surely, in the eyes of the majority, this will look at least like an unequal marriage of convenience. From your environment: “the old man decided to shake off the old days”, “why do you need such a thing, I should have found a young one.” From his environment: “she needs money/property from you, and then she will divorce you,” “she was deprived of her father’s attention as a child, so now she is with you, but this will pass.” And everything like that. There’s no need to even guess here—these are stereotypes of society. And this is precisely why you need to focus on the strongest and deepest aspects of compatibility in your couple in order to counter this public opinion. So that no one even has any doubts about the strength of your union.
Yes, your couple probably doesn’t look traditional. Whereas in reality it is very harmonious. And hardly many people know that a Cancer man, even at an advanced age, remains at heart a sophisticated romantic and a dreamer. And next to a much younger girl, such a man himself gains a second youth. So rejoice in your meeting, develop the soil common interests, but don’t rush things regarding marriage just yet. Still, your chosen one has family type 2 and this, as a rule, needs some time. Although the initiative will most likely come more from you, Alena. And there is nothing wrong with this, but, I repeat, everything has its time.
Z.Y.: about the “seal of misfortune.” Naturally, I understood what kind of site it was. I saw him too. But, alas, he is one of those who circulate several standard answers for all couples in circles and, believe me, the “seal of misfortune” is given out right and left to every third couple. This can already be called a feature of such a site. And, by the way, there are also quite a few funny sites, by the way, much more popular than ours, where all couples are perfectly compatible with each other. Therefore, everyone chooses what they like. And if we talk about chips, then on In-contri, as you, I hope, noticed, there are no two pairs with identical calculations. Everyone is individual. As, indeed, are the people themselves.
While we're on the subject, that site uses synastry calculations, which is practically very difficult to implement as a script on the site. It can be truly reliable if two conditions are met:
- calculated manually by an experienced astrologer (I know one of these and have seen this happen)
- you know exactly down to the minute your and your partner’s time of birth
And just with the second point, everything is not as simple as it seems. We really only know from rumors and memories from our parents, at best, what time we were born. Therefore, when the error in our time of birth is added to the error in the time of birth of our partner, then such “seals” are then obtained in practice. And in synastry it may be that a person born at 9 o’clock in the morning and, let’s say, at 10 am already have a completely different set of qualities. In my opinion, such an approach has a right to life, but its emphasis is often placed completely incorrectly. If a person is a Taurus, like you, for example, then he is first and foremost a Taurus and secondly and thirdly has the qualities of other signs. And not the dominant qualities. And in similar calculations, everything can be turned around so that you have nothing left of Taurus. Let me remind you that a difference in just one hour of birth can lead to this. Whereas in the In-contri calculation we see that a difference of a day or two in the date of birth will not lead to dramatic changes. Unless these days or two fall on border markers.
Here, Alena. It's my opinion. You can argue or agree. I wish you good luck in love, development, mutual spiritual growth and, of course, I would like to write in a year how things are going with you. Good luck to you!
Each person is unique in terms of character, however, having information about your man's Zodiac Sign, you can better understand the characteristics of his personality. This way you will have a better chance of liking him and understanding how to build your relationship.
If your man is Cancer, it is important to note right away that this Zodiac Sign is characterized by immense love for family. Of course, this does not mean that people of other Signs cannot appreciate family life, parents or their children. No, it’s just that almost all men born under the sign of Cancer are family people. They are predisposed to this lifestyle and truly love it.
For a woman, family always comes first, but that’s not all. A man of this Zodiac Sign is not tough enough for all ladies. Let's take a closer look at the possible character traits and secrets of a Cancer man to help you win his heart.
5 Cancer secrets you should know
Secret one: A man born under the constellation Cancer loves to be more than just a father or husband. Very often his dream is complete and comprehensive management of the family. If you are a woman who wants to take full part in raising children and managing the family budget on an equal basis with her chosen one, then most likely you risk being disappointed. Cancers expect obedience from their loved ones.
Secret number two: If your man is Cancer, then there will be no shortage of affection and love. Yes, many Cancers take on the responsibility of complete management, but maybe this is for the better? They are always busy, but family is the center of the universe for them, so they give all their warmth to their family. They are like a warm blanket that covers you in the evenings and always gives you a feeling of calm. You want to entrust yourself and all family affairs to such people.
Third secret is about following the rules. Yes, Cancers are gentle and pleasant, but if in childhood their mother did not show them what real romance is, then they themselves are unlikely to learn it. Don’t try to change these people, because you won’t succeed anyway. It is better not to argue with them and do not force your opinion on them on any issue.
Mystery Four: They are calm and often not impulsive, so for many of you, a strong crush or complete indifference on the part of a Cancer man will look the same. The secret is that they respect straightforwardness; ask them about your feelings and they will happily tell you the truth. Try to be open and honest with them.
The last secret Cancer men are his memory. Revenge is alien to this Zodiac Sign, but they always remember grievances. They may forget their name best friend or how to put the kettle on, but never offend. Based on the previous secret, we can conclude - sincerely ask for forgiveness and do not expect that your offense or mistake will be forgotten. Everything can be corrected only through repentance.
So, the main secret of happy love with a Cancer man is to be honest with him and with yourself. In any case, this person will most likely be able to become your guide to the world of warm love and family comfort. Therefore, if you realize that you are ready for this, then go towards happiness and don't forget to press the buttons and
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Cancer men are open-hearted, sincere, loving natures. They often preserve their emotionality for those they truly value - family, children.
At first, he makes a bad impression on others. But after communicating with this person, the opposite opinion is formed.
Cancers are quite vulnerable, impressionable, and often listen to the public. They are beautiful in appearance and kind to people. These men always remain themselves.
Excessive emotionality is not their strong point. Cancers are patient and reserved. Let's consider the main characteristics of Cancer men, what kind of women he likes.
Those born under this sign - real fatalists who do not believe that life can change thanks to their own efforts. The mood of Cancers is subject to the Moon, which determines life's ups and downs.
Young people born under this sign are susceptible to the mood of others.
During times of stress or depression they need support from loved ones, although they never ask for it. Only communication with people can pull Cancer out of the abyss of apathy.
But these men do not forget and do not forgive the insults of their loved ones.
Appearance and inner world of a lady
What kind of women and girls do a Cancer man like and attract externally, how to attract his attention, make him a lover?
Such young people are enough attractive, shy, sentimental and gentle. There are no problems with women. They hover around him, trying to attract his attention.
Girls admire the mystery, sensuality and romance in this young man. However, not everyone will appreciate the deep inner world of a representative of this sign.
Excessive daydreaming, illusory perception, and abstract reasoning scare women away.
At the initial stage of a relationship, Cancers seem not too romantic, sometimes even rude and flighty. So they are trying to figure out the seriousness of everything that is happening. As they communicate, these men begin to open up.
Cancers are the only representatives of the zodiac who understand female nature. They can recognize a girl’s mood and guess her desires by looking at her.
Representatives of the sign always in search of the most ideal. Next to them they want to see a girl who is able to understand and accept him with all his shortcomings and contradictions.
Appearance for Cancers is a very important aspect when choosing a life partner. He loves when a girl looks well-groomed, neat, sexy.
The companion must have sociability, self-confidence and self-confidence. However, you should not be too cold and unapproachable with Cancer. Such men want to see a romantic, gentle, affectionate nature next to them.
Men born under this sign need to talk about feelings often. This way they gain more self-confidence.
Cancer is quite loyal. Therefore, the woman to whom this young man proposed can calm down: he will always be there. Cancer needs a serious person who wants long term relationship, and not short-term novels.
Children and beloved wife come first for representatives of this sign. He will sacrifice everything for their well-being and happiness.
It is very important for a man born under this sign that the girl finds a common language with her parents. These people are always important and loved even when he becomes a self-sufficient man.
Caring from the woman you love is also an advantage for Cancers. Such men can't stand scandals. They prefer to avoid conflict situations.
Therefore, the ideal woman in the eyes of the representative of the sign is the one who does not scandal over trifles. He wants sincerity in relationships, mutual understanding, harmony, respect, sincerity.
Those born under the sign of Cancer are real pedants. The girl next to you must keep things clean and be neat. Such men also love to eat delicious food.
You don't have to cook fancy French dishes. Hearty borscht and meat cutlets are enough.
For such men, it is important that the woman she loves devotes herself entirely to her family, and not to her career. For this reason, they are ready to provide for her and fulfill all the whims of their beloved.
Cancer is a terrible jealous person and owner. He will not tolerate even innocent flirting with other men. Such behavior on the part of a loved one can lead to a quarrel.
A man born under the sign of Cancer cannot stand it when other men look at his woman enthusiastically.
She is always against the girl going out in revealing, tight outfits; sometimes she insists that the chosen one not wear makeup. Who said it would be easy?
Main qualities in a girl: positive and negative
- Loyalty. He will not forgive the betrayal of his chosen one.
Mind. Such men love it when they have something to talk about with a girl.
Therefore, your life partner must have high intellectual abilities.
Care and attention. Cancers are romantic people who respect when the other half remembers everything important dates- the day of the first date, kiss, intimacy.
He will be glad if his beloved arranges a romantic dinner by candlelight.
What a girl shouldn't be like:
- aggressive;
- sloppy, careless;
- vulgar, defiant;
- selfish;
- cold;
- sharp;
- rough;
- illiterate.
To win the love of this man, you need to prove and demonstrate your sincerity, devotion, and femininity.
Experience, sympathy, and the ability to support in difficult times will help you win the heart of your loved one.
How to conquer
Cancer is a rather categorical and stubborn person. However, if he loves, sees sincere repentance in his beloved girl, then can forgive any offense (except treason). The main thing is to admit your guilt.
What does a Cancer man like? Girls who want to win the heart of this man need to take into account that he is a real homebody who is not attracted to constant trips to the cinema, restaurants, or noisy companies.
Those born under this sign love to accumulate money. For them, this is an opportunity to feel protected and insured from troubles and troubles.
These men very economical. They know how to work with their minds and hands. They love to work, especially when it is appreciated. A girl should not forget that her beloved must be constantly praised.
It is important for Cancer that his woman never competes with his mother. Never speak ill of her. This will cause indignation and a storm of emotions on the part of the chosen one.
His mother is his dearest person. No matter how it sounds, you still have to come to terms with it, especially if your plans include building Serious relationships.
Sex is very important in a relationship with Cancer. Such young people are simply raving about this useful activity, especially if the woman herself takes the initiative.
Representatives of the sign love variety in intimate life . If a girl meets him after work in sexy lingerie, then this is a big plus.
Don't try to control the life of such a man. Cancers simply do not tolerate power from the opposite sex. By at least, he definitely won’t build a serious relationship with such a girl.
Cancer is a romantic person. He will do everything and even more for his beloved. But if you don’t notice any actions on the part of your chosen one, then there’s no point in talking about mutual feelings.
Be aware of the temperament of such men. If he wanted something, then no matter what you did, he wouldn’t budge. Don’t waste your nerves - it’s better to come to terms with it.
To win his heart use all your feminine charm. If this man is considered as a future spouse, then try to become for him a caring girl, mother and friend all rolled into one.
Cancers do not take criticism well, even if it is objective. This man loves to be praised. Considers himself irresistible.
But don't focus on appearance. This is unlikely to attract a young man. It’s better to note the positive qualities and numerous skills of your chosen one.
Those born under this sign love women who are gentle, affectionate, friendly, at the same time sexy, and relaxed in bed.
If any quality is lacking, then the young man will again look for that one - the ideal one.
Let your chosen one know already on the first date that you are the most faithful, sincere, and gentle.
At the initial stage of a relationship, there is no need to overly control every step of your chosen one, call him every 5 minutes and ask where he is.
It's very annoying. He will never tell the truth. Therefore, it is better to wait for his arrival, and only then share your dissatisfaction.
Cancers love to feel love from their woman. He likes it when his chosen one is jealous of him and shows it.
Just don’t go to extremes, looking for him in a cafe or calling friends. It's too much.
Give him more freedom, let him go bowling, billiards, don’t scold him when he’s late at work. Better try to make him want to go home only and not spend time with friends.
To do this, light a candle, prepare it favorite dish, put on beautiful underwear - and you're done.
It is necessary to fight for the heart of Cancer. He, of course, is not the most ideal, he is not able to shower him with gifts and carry him in his arms all day long, but you can rest assured of his reliability, stability and fidelity.
They are very similar and have many of the same features. But, of course, there is no complete similarity. For example, people born under the sign of Cancer are considered to be gloomy and too emotional, but, by and large, this is far from true.
Cancers have many individual characteristics that people around them simply do not notice at first glance.
A list of qualities that are most characteristic of this zodiac sign can help you better understand the personality and character of Cancers.
1. Excellent intuition and good ability to see through people
People under the sign of Cancer have a unique intuition that allows them to notice little things that others would not pay attention to. Cancers have a natural talent for understanding people, so they can immediately sense unusual or strange behavior. These people should rely on their instincts more often; they will not let them down.
2. Cancers are passionate lovers
In love affairs, Cancers are never satisfied with little, so they make very passionate and ardent lovers. Cancer's love is like nothing else - feeling it, you feel alive.
3. They get their hearts easily broken.
Cancers are very sensitive, they take it very hard when someone plays with their heart or, even worse, breaks it. It often takes them a very long time to recover from unsuccessful relationships and regain their balance.
4. Cancers can be extremely generous
These are some of the most generous people in the world. They often give gifts to their friends and loved ones just like that, without any special reason. And they do this not because they feel obligated - they like to see smiles on the faces of their loved ones.
5. They are mysterious and impenetrable
This sign has a penchant for mystery; they sometimes seem too mysterious. These are not the people who immediately reveal their secrets; they do not like to tell others about their every thought and emotion, unlike other signs. On the one hand, this makes them completely impenetrable to unfamiliar people, but on the other hand, this attracts new people to them.
6. Cancers love affection
These people love to feel loved and needed, and their sensual side really needs tenderness! Cancer will not pass by tenderness, especially if offered correctly.
7. They are quiet and calm... as long as they don't bother them.
People of this sign have a relaxed attitude towards life, but do not think that they will allow you to sit on their heads. If Cancer is provoked, he will take out his claws and put anyone in their place, and it won’t seem like much.
8. Cancers have violent mood swings.
Sometimes the mood of these people changes like the wind. When they feel good, they feel just great, but when they feel bad, they feel really bad. They try to restrain their emotions until the last moment, but sometimes they are overwhelmed by feelings.
9. They will never leave a friend in trouble
Cancers value friendship very highly, so they are ready to do anything to help a close friend. People of this sign know how to listen, and when someone close to them is having a hard time, they are ready to give up everything to provide moral support.
10. Cancers can get sentimental and nostalgic.
Sometimes they get so caught up in memories of the past that they forget about the present. These people find it difficult to leave anything behind.
11. Cancers strive for deep and meaningful relationships.
Typically, representatives of this sign are not interested in short-term romances; they are more devoted to close, long-term relationships. It takes them a long time to find the right person, but once this happens, they invest themselves fully in the relationship.
12. They need their own cozy home
Such people tend to be homebodies and feel most comfortable within their own walls. To achieve this, they spare no time and effort to create a comfortable and cozy home that they can call their own.
13. When Cancers are unhappy, they become unsociable.
If something upsets them, they can build a wall between themselves and others and hide behind it. Close people should not take this as a personal insult... it’s just that Cancer sometimes needs time to be alone and come to its senses.
14. Cancers do not get along with impudent and unceremonious people
They are able to find a common language with the most different people, but if you are impudent, demanding and try to push Cancer around, then nothing will work out for you. Cancers are repulsed by people who think only about themselves, so they immediately turn away from such individuals.
15. They need time to open up.
Cancers can be quite timid and shy, especially in an unfamiliar situation. But once you earn their trust and friendship, you will see that they are not really quiet! Just don't rush them - they need time.
16. Cancers are open-minded and creative
These people are dreamers, their imagination knows no bounds. They are open to everything new and prefer to think things over themselves rather than take other people’s conclusions on faith.
17. Cancers are very vindictive
Cancer tries to treat people as he treats himself, but if someone betrays his trust or commits some unforgivable act for him... He will not forget this for a long time. It is better not to spoil your relationship with Cancer, because he has a good memory and will not soon forgive betrayal.
18. Cancers are strong and resilient
Despite the fact that Cancers are famous for their sensitivity, they are not at all weak. No matter what happens, they will withstand the blow of fate until the end, this shows their incredible endurance.
19. They always instinctively protect those they love.
For these people, family and friends always come first. They have a developed instinct to care and protect. It is very unwise to quarrel with someone close to him... Cancer will not let you get away with it.
20. Cancer is a complex and multifaceted personality
Those born under this sign are difficult to squeeze into any rigid framework; they are quite multi-layered natures. Just when you decide that you finally understand everything about Cancer, he takes it and does something completely unexpected.
21. Cancers are warm and sympathetic
Compassion and empathy are integral traits of Cancers, as they are almost the most attentive and caring people in the world. They know how to understand others well because they are always able to put themselves in the place of another and look at things through their eyes.
Classic representatives of the Cancer zodiac sign strive to be the best in bed. The reason for this behavior is quite prosaic - it is not the desire to please a loved one, but the desire to gain maximum power over him. Cancers prefer to dominate in sex.
Cancer - integrated approach and dominance
For all zodiac signs, the choice of a partner for a pleasant pastime and long-term relationship is almost the same - an assessment of the potential partner’s appearance, temperament and character. It is on the basis of this comprehensive picture that decisions are made. For Cancers, everything is much more complicated, since there is a whole list of specific fetishes on which the image of an ideal partner is based. Which ones? Eye and hair color, favorite perfume scent, demeanor - every nuance matters.
As soon as Cancers find a suitable person, they strive with all their might to win them over and cause dependence. While seducing, remaining inaccessible is a whole art that representatives of this zodiac sign master perfectly. Cancers are dominant in bed. They are concerned about their own satisfaction, so very often Cancers get the role of teachers in the art of physical love. Since the zodiac sign is jealous, you should not tell them about when and with whom sexual experience was acquired. Let this remain your personal secret.
Cancers have sex according to their mood. Don't insist if you see that your partner is not in the mood for bed games. Cancers' need for carnal love is not so great that they put it first in their lives. Rest assured, when choosing between bed and work, Cancers will give preference to work.
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Passion turns into stability
Due to the vulnerability and vulnerability of Cancers, it is better not to make comments. As soon as he hears that you don’t get pleasure in bed, he will immediately go in search of a more loyal partner. Cancers have a lot of “broken hearts”; they know a lot about destroying relationships. Cancers are very sensitive to any encroachment on their freedom. If you dream of breaking up with a partner who is boring you, talk to him more often about marriage and long-term relationships. It won't be long until he disappears from your horizon without a trace.
Do you have plans for Cancer? Be passionate, ready to have sex at any moment, shower your partner with compliments and praise. Cancer is easy to manipulate. It is enough to determine his erogenous zones and periodically “stimulate” them. Sensuality and passion in relationships will gradually lead you to a stable relationship.
Compatibility with other zodiac signs
The ideal union would be Cancer and Sagittarius. It combines complete opposites, which, as we know from school, attract each other. Relationships in a couple will be somewhat similar to Libra. Oscillating in different directions, they will be able to find balance.
Relationships with Scorpio and Leo will be unsuccessful. They have a chance to exist only as an outburst of emotions, since they can destroy the lives of representatives of both zodiac signs.
The recipe for an ideal relationship with Cancer is not simple - do not cause jealousy and do not compare your loved one with previous partners. Don't insist on sex if you see that Cancer is in a slightly different mood. At the same time, respond to any offers from your partner to have sex. Emphasize the superiority and importance of Cancers in your life, even if the situation is completely different. Do not encroach on the freedom of your loved one and forget about open manifestations of jealousy. Only by following these rules can you plan long-term relationships with representatives of the Cancer zodiac sign.
The material was prepared with the help of experts from the Astro7.ru service.
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